I have stage 3 ovarian cancer, and I am in love with a man (who in my opinion is the most perfect man)–but in my heart I feel he is cheating. I would give anything to ask the woman whom he is sleeping with %26quot;what kind of woman are YOU… why can%26#039;t you leave him alone%26quot; I am suffering with cancer and all you can think about is seeing him. PLEASE help me to understand.|||Do you KNOW he%26#039;s cheating?

He may be putting distance between you because he just doesn%26#039;t know how to deal with the cancer and his fears about what could happen. It%26#039;s scary stuff, and a lot of men just aren%26#039;t good at it. If you don%26#039;t know for a fact that he%26#039;s cheating, I%26#039;d probably just want to talk to him — not necessarily about what he%26#039;s doing wrong, but about how much you value him being around, etc. etc. Focus on the positives and make sure to TELL HIM what you need from him right now — it might help him deal with his fears and make him feel like he%26#039;s being useful and has something to offer you.

If you do know that he%26#039;s cheating… well, it may be for the same reasons, that he%26#039;s seeking comfort elsewhere because it%26#039;s hard for him too. That%26#039;s totally unacceptable, even if he%26#039;s struggling. But again, it%26#039;d probably be better to confront him in a, I know you%26#039;re struggling with this too, but I need your support and if you can%26#039;t give it to me then I can%26#039;t let you pretend to. I know that%26#039;d be hard given what you%26#039;re already dealing with, but I think it%26#039;d be good for you to know whose side he%26#039;s on and what the reality of the situation is. Knowing will at least give you more peace of mind. Good luck!|||First let me say that I%26#039;m sorry about your illness, and I will pray for you.

Do you know for a fact he%26#039;s cheating? Or do you just feel it in your heart? If you know for a fact that he%26#039;s cheating, it shouldn%26#039;t have anything to do with your illness. He%26#039;s just a dog. And you can%26#039;t blame the woman. You don%26#039;t have to like her, but I%26#039;m sure she didn%26#039;t put a gun up to his head.

Stay strong, and always have friends and family around you to keep you grounded. And ALWAYS PRAY. Works everytime.|||I was also cheated on (do not have any cancer or anything). First off you need to redirect your anger to the man that is suppose to love you. That woman has no obligation to you. What kind of man is he to go out and hurt someone he loves who is also sick…You need to reevaluate your relationship…or are you willing to be there because he is a good man…

On the other hand maybe he is looking to replace you..might sound harsh but he%26#039;s looking for someone that can take you place..he does not want to be hurt if G%D forbid u ever leave him…Just talk to him and see where his mind is at…

I hope all is well with you and you are in my prayers…