Also would you seek another opinion, aas i got two different answers from Urologist..|||If the operation prolongs life, even by a year or two, then yes. I%26#039;d also seek a 3rd and even 4th opinion. Are you the person with the cancer? Whoever it is, I%26#039;m deeply sorry. I know what it%26#039;s like to have that horrible disease in the family. You%26#039;ll come to the right decision and remember, sometimes miracles do happen. The very best of luck to you and yours|||I would not go through with it if there was no hope. But remember that man doesn%26#039;t have the final say, God does.|||Please seek another opinion. My grandfather had prostate cancer and treated it for a while, but decided against agressive chemo. He passed away in 2001 and I miss him terribly. Your family will want you to do everything you can to stay with them for as long as possible.