Time with him. Take him to lunch.|||coffin|||that sucks. just get him a nice card and tell him you%26#039;re OK cuz he%26#039;s probably more worried about what will happen to his family if he%26#039;s gone.|||Get him a portrait of the most precious people in his life.|||First Best wishes for you and your Family.
This may sound a bit out there, But my Husbands Aunt Has 2 Cancer treatment clinics in Germany and Austria, she has won numerous awards for her Cancer treatments and has a93% success rate. EX: My Husbands Grandmother was told she Had less than 6 months by conventional Dr%26#039;s. and she decided to take the 7week treatment. she was cancer free for 25-26 years and passed of Old age. if it where possible maybe a plane trip would be a GREAT 1, and if Not please email me if you are interested in knowing MORE . and I will send you all I know. She also has 2 Books she has written both available on amazon. I%26#039;m not certain if they are in English though, But I will find out %26#039;if you are interested%26#039;. Best wishes to you and Dad ~_~|||Check out the Things Remembered website:
http://www.thingsremembered.com/
They have great gifts for anyone and you can have them personalized.|||Tell him you love him. Remind him of all the good things he has done for you. Tell him how much you appreciate all of this. Take him out as much as you can. Take him to good restaurants, try to spend quality time with him.
Go with him and speak to his doctor about his condition. He is only 65, and most prostate cancers can be cured, so give him all the strength that he needs now. No material gift can compare with the love, and time you can give him now.
That is the best advice I can give you. Hope your dad gets well soon.|||A get well card seems inappropriate to me. Prostate cancer is not something you can recover from.
However, the saying is that you don%26#039;t die from prostate cancer, you die with it, ie it takes a long time to become lethal and something else will get you first, therefore.
So it is not all bad news.|||please read this story:
a young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer%26#039;s showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. A Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box. Curious, and somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible, with the young man%26#039;s name embossed in gold. Angry, he rose his voice to his father and said %26quot;With all your money, you give me a Bible?%26quot; and stormed out of the house.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realised his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things. When he arrived at his father%26#039;s house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search through his father%26#039;s important papers and saw the still gift-wrapped Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. His father had carefully underlined a verse, Matt. 7:11, %26quot;And if ye, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly Father which is in Heaven, give to those who ask Him?%26quot; As he read those words, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer%26#039;s name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words PAID IN FULL.|||Give your father the gift of your time. Make sure you let him know that you will be there with him through everything and that you love him no matter what past problems you two may have. If you are looking for a gift that shows him you want him comfortable, get him a sweater and a pair of slippers and a soft luxurious blanket. Chemotherapy can lead to patients being cold a lot, and this will show him you are truly thinking of his needs. I wish you both the best.