with the prostate cancer it has affected his blader and the dr requested no caffienie at this time,i am very serious what has caffeine in it.appreciate answers thank you.betty_43113@yahoo.com|||I am not too sure what caffeine has or may do to cancer. But, I can tell you that caffeine is not good. Whether its in small or large amounts. My mom has cancer and she has eliminate completely caffeine, sugars, and bad fats. I suggest you do the same. And try to incorporate lots of veggies and fruits. My mom has been doing great ever since she%26#039;s change her diet. By the way have lots of faith it will help so much!|||Chocolate has caffeine, so do a lot of soft drinks.|||The best advice one can give is to read the label. Under federal law every product must have a list of ingredients.|||Here%26#039;s a good list of things with caffeine.

Just a general rule — look at the label of any food, even herbal supplements, that you may buy. If all else fails, ask your doctor.

Best regards.|||coffee and tea have caffeine, even decaf coffee/tea have small amounts of caffeine|||Coffee, some teas, chocolate,regular and diet colas,and Dr.Pepper type soft drinks,certain pain medications, etc.

Dr. Andrew Weil says - %26quot;Masturbation is a normal sexual behavior that just about everybody engages in - 95 percent of males and 89 percent of females, according to current statistics. For many people, however, it remains a taboo subject and a practice that is still regarded as perverse or immoral. As recently as the late 19th century, medical doctors condemned masturbation as destructive to mental health, even recommending amputation of the penis as a way to cure the habit in compulsive males.%26quot;

%26quot;Now it appears that masturbation is not only normal, it may be healthy and protective, especially for young men. A team of scientists in Australia found that men who ejaculate more frequently between the ages of 20 and 50 are less likely to develop prostate cancer. The protective effect seems greatest for those in their 20s.%26quot;|||What a pile of %26quot;%26amp;*@ theres nothing wrong with it, you will not go to hell, you will not destroy your soul, you will not go blind. End of story! theres wouldnt be enough room in hell anyway|||rebel it%26#039;s like alcohol

you should do neither alone|||I guess in their eyes its wasting %26quot;life%26quot;

but heres a question for them: when A woman Ovulates is she commiting sin because the egg never got fertalized?

I wish people wouldnt be so damn Ignorant all the friggin time Its normal and it is the safest sex there is…..|||soo science is against religion ANYWAY|||I think because it is funner than going to church.|||Masturbation allows you to explore your own body in a sexual way, find out what you like and what you dont like. Human beings, are sexual beings, we reproduce.

So how can any religion forbid this, as its healthy for the body?|||i thik we all would be going straight to hell then, I would be about 10,000 times over|||Probably because it%26#039;s self-indulgence and can be viewed by religions as gluttony, temptation and sinful.|||Dr. Andrew Weil is correct in one thing - among sinners, it IS normal. But Jesus said that to even LOOK at a woman, or to lust, is as bad as adultery in the eyes of God. So, if you feel the need to live a lust-filled, self-centered, selfish lifestyle of sin, if you feel that this is %26quot;normal%26quot; behavior, you go right ahead. But just make sure you have your excuses ready because when you stand before God, He%26#039;ll tell it like it is, and I don%26#039;t think Dr. Weil will be there defending you, since he%26#039;ll be facing his OWN judgement day!|||Id rather do what God says is good for me then what man says is good for me. Man is always trying to justify sins.

I have acutally masurbated before, I went to the bishop about it a couple of weeks ago. I havnt done it since and my spirit feels SO much better. I know it was distroying me.|||Really , why i believe some would consider it that way is because your wasting life in a sense , but really i dont think it is , its really just a normal thing to do , i guess its a simple way to pacify being alone ( no i dont believe relationships just consist of sex ).

However i think that some people will go to far and get lost into it and it just gets really wierd when it becames all of them and not just a part of their life.|||Who cares about scientists? Who made them God?

Its a sin because in all we do we are supposed to do it all in the glory of God. When we are lusting over our own flesh, then we are living in the flesh and not in the spirit of God.

Lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.

God designed the male and female to become one flesh. %26quot;The two shall become one flesh%26quot;

How can one become one flesh with ONE?|||Because people only view masturbation as nasty and deviant when they%26#039;re not engage in it themselves.|||First of all I would really like to know how masturbation is deemed healthy, I mean is it the same healthy as say vitamins or swimming etc.

These so called professional people think they can spout any old diatribe and the great un-washed have to accept it.

Masturbation is a sin wether we like to admit it or not, it is a grave offense against the Holy Spirit Who dwells within us and it is a sin against human chastity and purity.

Have you noticed how the same people insist that virginity is also old hat and one should lose it as soon as possible?|||The church at one time licensed all of the brothels to the church. If you masturbated then they would be out some revenue. So they made it a sin.|||masterbation is a sin because of what u r thinking while doing it -end of story|||Its simple:

The two paths are:

1) The spiritual path:

2) The materialistic worldly path.

Accepting the spiritual path means you seek to behave in accordance with the spirit of God (as detailed in many scriptures from many religions); and controlling the body and mind with the soul (rather than the other way around).

Accepting the material path means you seek to obtain material pleasures and possesions: In other words, you bodily need becomes the motive for the mind, and the soul becomes the servant of the body, and its senses.

As religions promote the spiritual life; the highest goal of which is to:

1) Eat only what is required to live, not to enjoy

2) Reject all lust in favour of recognizing the level of spiritual self realization in others.

3) Regulating the body to prevent stress, thereby avoiding frustrations that lead to masturbation.

4) Rejecting the need to feel ownership over possesions and relationships.

The scientific issue is well documented. Excessive masturbation leads to:

1) Excessive testosterone levels:

2) A resultant increase in risk of Cancer (especially testicular cancer).

3) Premature balding.

Testosterone actually promotes cellular proliferation and so increases the risk of cancer. The Aussies are wrong, study is flawed.|||Maturbation though it%26#039;s natural to desire to satisfy oneself sexually, is not 100% healthy. When one masturbates, releasing fluids out of the body, this leads to a loss of essential nutrients and energy. In men, the loss of too many nutrients, if they masturbate too frequently, can lead to premature hair loss.

In addition, during the stimulus of the genetals, especially during orgasm, you are messing around with the hormones in your body. The reason why you want to masturbate and stimulate the pleasure centre of the brain, is due to the chemical serotonin. Serotonin is the chemical that gives one a euphoric feeling; the excitement that you feel all over your body once you orgasm.

After the orgasm, a different chemical is released, making you cool down. This hormone makes you feel down, creating the polar opposite of the affects of serotonin. If you mess around with your hormones, you mess around with your moods.

People who try to quit masturbation do find that they are depressed for the first few weaks due to the fact that they have become accustomed to that %26quot;high%26quot; which the chemical serotonin gives them. They can%26#039;t stand the affects of the polar opposite hormone.

Therefore, there is a risk of dependancy and using masturbation to avoid dealing with conflict healthily.

There are negative aspects to the practice and you have to decide whether the positive aspects outweight the negative.

For ex. masturbation, which is often done alone, is often linked to becoming unsocial aroud others.

Try talking to your mom or dad after working it out, and you%26#039;ll see what I mean.

Masturbation often ensued by a feeling of guilt as well, for everyone, have you ever wondered why? The affect of masturbation on one%26#039;s mental health are not intensive enough to provide insight into this complicated issue.

For info. on the negative affects of too much masturbation visit the following links:

http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?Ar…

(this site gives great info. on the affects of over masturbation)

http://www.taketheaction.com/index.html

http://www.steadyhealth.com/Can_masterba…|||Because of abuse of masturbation,

I guy I know did it back to back for days where he couldn%26#039;t feel it and he yanked it off by accident. lol

A lot of medical experts says that it relieves stress and prevents prostate cancer, but some people say its a sin.|||yes it is and if you do it it will fall off and lot of bad tuff will happen to you!

no its not! i do it all the time|||I would say a bigger sin is having sex with random people so go ahead and masterbate|||I think God will understand. If you have a relationship w/him he will let you know the things that are not right. I don%26#039;t know if it is in the Bible as a sin, at least in the NT. Relax.|||MASTURBATION MYTHS:

from http://www.jackinworld.com/library/myths…

Chances are, of all the things you%26#039;ve heard about masturbation, most of them were absolutely false. For some reason, misinformation surrounds masturbation like virtually no other topic. How do you spot a masturbation myth? One simple method is to ask yourself if the statement is also true of sexual intercourse. When you%26#039;re masturbating, your body only knows it%26#039;s getting sexually stimulated; it doesn%26#039;t know by what means. So, for instance, if the question is whether or not masturbation causes acne, think of it this way: If it did, intercourse would also cause acne. In fact, neither masturbation nor intercourse cause acne.

MYTH:

Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.

FACT:

How many people with hair on their palms have you seen?

MYTH:

Masturbation causes hair loss, chronic fatigue, and other problems.

FACT:

Internet scam artists have tried to invent a concept called %26quot;overmasturbation,%26quot; insisting that you have to buy their expensive herbal pills in order to counteract the effect of masturbating more than a couple of times per week. But the pills have absolutely no effect — and masturbating once or twice a day will not make your hair fall out, or cause anything else they claim.

MYTH:

Masturbation is bad for your eyesight.

FACT:

Masturbation does not affect eyesight. This myth probably originated because boys often start having to wear glasses at about the same age they start masturbating.

MYTH:

Masturbation causes your penis to stop growing (or) to get bigger.

FACT:

Masturbation has no effect on penis size whatsoever.

MYTH:

Masturbation causes your testicles to shrink.

FACT:

Absolutely false! It is true that if you%26#039;re highly aroused, your testicles become engorged with blood and may appear slightly larger and heavier, and that masturbating will make them revert to normal. But they will absolutely not be any smaller than after the last time you masturbated.

MYTH:

Masturbation causes acne.

FACT:

It doesn%26#039;t cause acne. Like the eyesight myth, this is a case of two things that happen at the same time, even though one doesn%26#039;t cause the other.

MYTH:

Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.

FACT:

Hello? %26quot;Sexually transmitted%26quot; means from one person to another. You can%26#039;t give yourself a sexually transmitted disease!

MYTH:

If you masturbate too much, you%26#039;ll run out of semen and become sterile.

FACT:

Semen is a fully renewable resource. When you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more — the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit.

MYTH:

People can tell whether you masturbate by how your penis looks.

FACT:

Masturbation does not change the appearance of your penis. (It does tend to cause an erection, but that usually goes away when you%26#039;re finished.)

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Masturbation Frequency:

http://www.jackinworld.com/misc/faqtree1…

How often does the average male masturbate?

It depends on a lot of factors, the most important being age. For an 18-year-old male, a rough average is once a day or so. This is slightly higher for younger teenagers — maybe 10 or 12 times a week, and slightly lower for older people. You might be surprised by how often adult men masturbate — even happily married men.

I think I%26#039;m addicted to masturbation. Is that possible?

It is, although many, many people think they%26#039;re addicted when they%26#039;re really just doing what comes naturally. For more on this topic, read the article Is Masturbation Addictive?(http://www.jackinworld.com/library/artic…

How can I masturbate less often, or quit altogether?

It%26#039;s tough; it takes a lot of will power. It can be done, especially if you%26#039;re driven by very strong religious feelings. However, JackinWorld%26#039;s position is that it%26#039;s not worth it. We think you should enjoy the harmless pleasures your body can provide.

Connection between ejaculation frequency and prostate health

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/4961….

QUESTION:

I have been coming across articles on the connection between masturbation, ejaculation, and overall health. I was very surprised about this article from the Cancer Council Victoria in Australia . It was a study that confirmed that ejaculation frequency is important for a healthy prostate. The protective effect was most significant in men in their twenties who ejaculated on average 7 or more times per week. It compared this against same-age men who ejaculated less than 3 times per week. I made a New Year%26#039;s resolution to pay attention to my body and to ejaculate at least once a day. I feel much better for it and my penis strength and sexual urge has increased immensely. I feel balanced. After a year, I can%26#039;t imagine going back to my old repressed frequency and probably couldn?t keep from cumming for a whole day if I tried now. Why aren?t people made aware of this need? After getting used to daily +, I often have the urge to do it even more, but hold back. Are there any physical problems with over ejaculating?

ANSWER:

What a fabulous New Year’s resolution to pay attention to your body! Your efforts are worth applauding, as being in tune with yourself and your new masturbation schedule seems to have paid off, as you note that you feel “balanced” and “much better for it.” Happily, no physical problems are associated with over-ejaculating, so don’t worry about giving in to the natural urge to enjoy and pleasure yourself more often. You clearly have a strong awareness of the positive effects of masturbation on your body, so go ahead and experiment with masturbation frequency – in this way, you can determine what frequency feels best for you and your regular routine.

You also ask why people aren’t made aware of the “need” to masturbate often. Good question – especially in light of the study’s findings that frequent ejaculation helps reduce the risk of prostate cancer. Unfortunately, self-stimulation – as with most sexual acts – is often viewed as shameful, dirty, immoral, and all sorts of other negative adjectives. Wouldn’t it be great if masturbation could be seen as the healthy, enjoyable, and beneficial activity it really is, openly talked about and (gasp!) endorsed? Perhaps one day it will be – with more people like you who are open-minded and bold enough to talk about it in a positive light.

Enjoy – and pass that article along to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, and anybody and everybody else!|||personally no its not a sin. I think its a great healthy normal sexual outlet. I would encourage you to do it while you are not getting the real thing|||I want to answer you fully. I do not have time. You can see my many answers to this issue.

There are many things to consider in answering that question.

Please email me seprately if you are a young perosn struggling with this issue. Please stay a virgin what ever else you do. God has created a wife for you. ONe person and one perosn only who God would like for oyu to have as a life long sex partner. He wants that becasue it helps his to keep disease from being quickly spread amongst humans.

God loves you and wants your sexual experience to be one where you feel close to him and let him know how grateful you are to be able to enjoy it.

Often sex and especially masturbation become a wya to feel seperated fomr God as though you are doing som ething wrong. Then too there are tohose who want ot do what they know is wrong and they use the idea that anyone who says one should be conservative and casutiios how they approach their sexual life is just doing harm.

There is a balance.

Not all guys masturbate. Some never do. Or at least on the net over the years many have ( after we are really going back and forth and speakling about hteir sexuality) many reveal they never did it and just said they did becaeu it seemed everyone else did and they didn%26#039;t wnat to think of themselves as odd or unussual.

God does not want you to go around in utter shame if you masturbated once. God does not want you to become some crazy person who masturbates ten times a day and develops strong anti social behavior that wrecks your life or causes you to harm some one else.

Most persons ( in our culture anyway ) are ashamed that they masturbate.

God mad eone perosn top be your wife. If you do masturbate ( and I recommend that you not masturbate or do it as seldom as possible and when you do fantacize about how much God loves you and tell God out loud how much you appreciate the fact hatt you can have such a great expeience. THatn him for creating you and thank him for helping you to learn to get it under your control.

Sex is wonderful but we live in a society that wants us to contorl it rather than have it control us. SO sex is really only wonderful when it is something you do wiht hte love of your life.

Your sex organ does not belong to you. It belongs to the person GOdmade for you to be your spouse. And theirs belings to you. that is what true sexual love within a GOd inspired relationship is about. Even most aithiests when they really go at it with their partners are heard to cry out %26quot; Oh. God!%26quot; It shows a human tnedency to recognize God and how kind a feeling he has allowed us to have when we have an orgasm. SO rather than say it in derision of GOd why not say it with sincerity and to praise GOd for he is the one who made it possible for you to experience that feeling.

Then too recognize that God knows that disease is spread through sex. HTat the Devil is busy trying to ruin you and your life. And that becaue of this God has asked us ( the ones he loves) to be careful and to protect our selves an teh children not yet born to us and their children also. By practicing abstinence ( no sex until you are married and monogamy only one sex partner ( your spouse ) for life you can help protect your progeny.

Then be busy preparing yourself to be the best husban or wife to the very specila perosn God has created for you. Realize that by doing that you are showing God thast you beleive he is real and that he really loves you. You are showing God that you beleive he has a peronal interest in you and your life. That is encouraging and up lifting. THen respect the ideas that are hteri to help us have sex with one person ( our mate) after we marry them.

This is the best way. the best sex for a life time the most enjoyable and satisfying is repeatedly reported in surveys to be that which is had between partners who never had sex till they were married and then only with each other.

Masturbation can cause you to learn poor habits about life. Or if you are prone to behavioral problems which most teens are masturbation can harm you r life emotionally and physically. Too much masturbation or any sort of sex that casues you to ejaculate will drain you of zinc and that harms your health.

see my many other answers to similar questions.

I had not meant ot go this long here.

Emai me and let me %26quot;councel you%26quot; if you are having the struggle that many guys have between feeling the urge to masturbate and also sort of not wantiong to do it. Perhaps in a few back and forths we can help you to have better self esteme and to be doing what it is that you want to do.

please email me directly fomir your email to minne not in this yahoo forum. It does not allow me to know what I have sent you and it limits the words I can send you.

Masturbation can be a sin.

It is best no to masturbate and to masturbate as little as you can manage if you find your self driven to masturbate.

Then there are different types of gUys with all sorts of a variety of sexual natrures and that comes into play.

If you want the best sex life for 80 years the best things to do is not masturbate until you have had aat leasat two wet dreams. That allows your body to get you strated rather than russing it.

Also the brain needs to have grown to a certain size (it does not happen until after you hit pubetrty) in order for the physiological things that should happen when you have your first ejactulation to be able to happen. When you wait it allows this to be set right. It allows you to build up a reservior of semen and it allows lots of other things to happen.

Pay attention to what you fanticize about when you masturbate and be in charge of your sexual fantasyies instead of having them in charge of you.

DO not use pornoigraphy to masturbate. YOu are lookiong t osm eon elses wife. God made that perosn to be the wife of some other guy. She is miss using the gift of sex. If she is pretty or beautifu God made her so and he made her so for a person ( a man ) who god loves and wantss to bless with that perosn and that body. So is it the other way around. Don;t look at naked guys. That woudl have you ending up being sure Godmade you a homosexual when he might not have done that at all.

Then you will be confused and insist that Godmade you a homosexual when God never made anyone a Homosexual nor did God make anyone to be blind or have a bent penis or have anything else dramatically different in their life than he made any one elses.

These things are all the result of the sin of Adam. They are problems that we have becaue our first ancestor Adam when God said to him trust in me and rely on me for every thing and do not go to Satan, God%26#039;s enemy for anything you need or want Adam did not belevie GOd really loved him so much. Adam and His wife ( the one God made especially for him just as God has made one especially for you )heard the Devils lies and believed them. and when they did the relationship , the fellowship they had with God became broken on that day. IN fact all of the creatino every thing that had been created by God became broken on that day. THings died which had never happened before that day. God was the tree of Life in the middle of that garden and Adam and eve ate fro it and gained spiritual nutrition from it and form being close to God and playing in Gods presence. God saw them naked physically and said it was Good. God saw them having sex and enjoying it and thanking God for it and God said it was good.

It was not a dirty evil sex as we have tried to make sex today it was a wonderful and glorious activity that helped them each feel safe and secure and well provided for and it was nuturing and encouraging.

SO do not let you r mind wander and think of such things as evil but instead praise GOd and love him and worship him and do it as much when and if you masturbate as you do when you do not masturbate and God will help you to realize if it is a thing you should do or not. DO not look at pictures of naked women ever and donot look at them to masturbate. INstead beleive GOd really loves you and ask him to help you grow and prepare yourslef to be an adult able to provide and comfort and love your wife in a wonderful way so she will have reason ( when God brings you together) to praise nd thatnk God for having given her such a wonderful husband who is just right for her. And you will then be able to say the same things abotu her because if you have and show faith that you believe God lioves you in that way GOd will honor that.

Ther eare eunuchs. Those are perosn who have little or no interest in sex. If they were not pursuaded by other human beings that theer is somethign wrong wiht them and they must be gay or lesbian becaeu they have no interest in sex with the opposite sex then many of them woudl live their life without ever masturbatino g or thinking a sexual thought. They woudl serve GOd and other human beings well and in the eternity get some sort of recognitio or blessing for it.

Many who think they are Gay,Lesbian ,Alternative, Same gender wrong gender etcetera are perons who life and the fall of mankind has disturbed them form havin the most common male female or eunuch life paths. If they had not lived in a societyu that makes such a big deal about sex they might not be sexually active persons. If they lived in a society that loved and served GOd rather in one that pretends it has an interest in God while it hardly does there life would be different.

We are all born in sin. It is not our fault. I was born a thief. It is ingrained in me to steal. How about you? I find I am dishonest and a liar. How about you?

Anyone who says they do not lie is lying when they say it.

Anyone who says they donot steal is lying and self righteous and no religion on earth allows the self righteous to gain the ultimate blessings of that religion and yet in most of them the leaders are self-righteous and haughty and pretending along wiht all of their followers that they are not.

No self -righteous perons shall get into heaven in Christianity.

I am a sinner. At age ten or eleven I reed the BIble once through it took a few weeks in the evenings and on week ends to do.. When I was done I said to myself this is a remarkable book. It had a lot of crazy stories in it and in many places when I read it it made no sense to me. Then I decided since it was such an important book in the world and especially inour western society having even our calendar based on one of its characters Jesus. I decided I had better read it agian and having read it and seen that the heroes inthat book all seamed ot aks things of God and God gave responses. I decided I woudl not only read the bible but also say a prayer to this GOd who I really didinot know if THat God even existed or was just dreamed up by humans. Any way it was clear that if there was a God and if that Book revealed him in any way to any person that the person had to speak out loud and say GOd if you are real reveal yourslef to me. Help me not to be led astray fomr the truth. Is there a truth God? If you are real and you have any truth I ask you to have mercy on me and compassion and to allow me to understand that truth.

So I read the bible again and this second tim ethrough I said that prayer as I read it. God if ytou are real help me to understnad what I am reading. If there is some partially hidden truth here show me what it is. I am trusting and relying on you to do that GOd. And when I read it through and Got to the Gospel according to Saint John the first chapter and the first verse and started to read it I started to have revelations from this GOd who I was not sure even existed. BUt now He was commmunicating wiht me. Ideas flooded my mind and I began to have an understanding of God and hios truth as I had been asking fo rthe past few weeks as I had re read that bible.

It was almost as if I had a tutor in my mind who was helping me to study it on my own. It was encouraging and filled me with joy and pleasaure. It was wonderful. I was what i came later to understand is called %26quot;Saved%26quot; and I was baptised in the HOly Spirit where he flooded ( with my permission ) my consiousness and helpped me to praise GOd and JEsus in ways greater than I was able to do just on my own. I didi not know this experience I had was called being filled with the hOly Spirit unitil later in my life. Yet I rememebre the experience as if it was yesterday though it haas been years ) and the experience i have found is universal. Any person who akss GOd to show them the turh and sincerely asks that repeatedly GOd will show them and what he will show them is the same exact thing he showed evereyone else who did that same asking. It helps to read the Bible. while you read ask GOd to save you and teach you his truth.

You will learn about God%26#039;s messiah and that the BIble is abook about God%26#039;s messiah. The whole book is about that.

When Jesus died on the cross he did it to free us fomr the guilt of Sin. Sin says that if you do it you then will be seperated fomr the love of God and God%26#039;s peace that humans can get only through GOd%26#039;s messiah.

Many of us believe Jesus is that Messiah. Those of

us who do get somethign called JOy and we all get it if we appraoch this subject the same way and sincerely. that means it is scientifically verifyable. If eceryone who does some thing gets the same results in science then it is called a scientific law. Well every one who asks God to save them will find out that Jesus is the MEssiah ( if they are open to the truth) and they wil end up being saved ( knowing for sure all their sins past present and future have been forgiven and that they will go to heaven. NOt because they have figured out how on their own to live or be right and righteous but becaeu they have come to realize they are a sinner who neds to be forgiven even though they are such a terrible sinner they do not deserve to be forgiven.

GOd wants to have a relatinoship with you that is not too much different ( on a spiritual level) than what reall sex between a husband and wife is like. God really does. Jesus speaks of his followers ad his Bride and himself as a bride groom.

God really lovces oyu very much whoever you are that is reading this. GOd wants to have a meaningful personal relationshiop with you where you depend on him for everything and recieve every blessing and good thing that GOd can bestow on you.

In order for that to happen you must admit you are a sinner who needs GOds help. YOu must also realize that in this messiah that God providedd and only in this messiah will you find relief for what bothers you troubles you or casues you to act out on sinful desires.

Then when you realize that and admit it to your self then you can say

Dear GOd I am a sinner and i need help. I desperately need help. I realize that Jesus was a sinles man who died on the cross to pay for my sin and the isn of the entire world. Thatn you GOd for having him die for me. THank you Jesus for dying for me to pay for my sins so that I owuld not have to pay for my own sins. Forgive me for my sins and forgive me for my isnfulness. Help me to realize I am forgiven Become my savior today. Fill me also with your holy Spirit and help ne to have wonderful happy tearfilled experience where my being is flooded with your light an love and encouragement. BE my Savior and teahc me how to live with oyu as my friend and the one who saved me. Amen.

God I masturbate. And i do not know if it is wrong or if it is O.K. to do. Help me to know. Help me not to do it if you do not want me to do it. HElp me to appraoch it the correct way so that if I do it or not do it that I draw close to you and have a happy joy filled healthy and safe life. You do not have a bad life for me you have a great life. Help me to do the things that willhelp me to enjoy that great life to the fullest.

I will believe that you created me and that you created sex. I thank you for creating such a wonderful exciting experience as what hapens when sperm and semen come out of my penis. YOu made it. You made it work. I do not want to use my sexual experience to glorify Satan or Sin. I want to use it to bring you Glory God nad to bring Glory to this Jeus who was so kind to die form me so I can have peace in my life and happiness and joy an dbe certain that when I die I can go to heaven and live forvever forgiven of all sin and so happy it knocks my socks off.

You are a wonderful GOd. I like you GOd. Thank you for likeing me.

I do not want to put my penis in anyone elses vagina but the one of the person you made to be my wife. I want that to be what I want. If I have been wanting something else. Help me to change so that this is what I want. LEt me think that doing anything else woudl be so disgusting that I would be repelled fomr doing it. Help me to accomplish that desire of my heart. Oh, GOd my Savior. In the name of GOd Saves I pray Amen. and Amen.

I hope this helps you. I invite you to email me and ask me any questions you have.

answwwerman@yahoo.com

If masturbation is a sin God has a way for you tobe forgiven for any ast masturbation. If it is not then God has a way for you to be forgiven for whatever else you do that is a sin.

Jese said that if you even look at another female ( other than your wife) and think to do something sexual with that person or even get slightly motivated to think of sex becasue you looked at her that in your mind you have al ready committed adultry. Adultery is having sexual intercourse with someone els%26#039;s wife. IF you are married and have sex with some one else besides your mate you aree an adulterer and so are they. When two person have sex who are single something God does not want or destire for anyone to do) then you are fornicating.

I need to say more about this but am running out of time now. Please email me.

this is really the most important thing. to come to an understanding of salvation. And to get your sex under your control so you do not get diseases or get mental turmoil from it.

answwwerman@yahoo.com

God save you and bless you I ask. Amen.|||Yes.

Judeo-Christian tradition has taught for thousands of years:

1. Single people should be celibate.

2. Married people should be faithful to each other (adultery is wrong).

The Catholic Church recognizes the power of sex when it teaches, %26quot;Sexuality affects all aspects of the human person in the unity of his body and soul.%26quot;

Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person. A chaste person%26#039;s body and spirit lives in unity and opposes any behavior that would impair that unity.

Masturbation is contrary to the human dignity of the person and anyone about whom the person has lustful thoughts, and the dignity of human sexuality.

With love in Christ.|||There are Laws and morals but I do not accept the concept of sin as I do not believe in the fairy story that is God.

I am currently 38 weeks pregnant with my fourth child. My oldest is 4. During the middle of this pregnancy I was pretty sure that I would be okay with a tubal but found out that the doctors would not preform it b/c it is a catholic hospital. I was okay with that b/c somewhere in the back of my head I kept asking myself what if I wanted another baby in 15 years? (I%26#039;m in my early 20%26#039;s) My husband comes up with excuse after excuse not to get a vasectomy (prostate cancer, costs, days off work). Last week at my doctor visit they told me I could get a tubal they would just wait a few weeks and I would have to go to a different medical center to have the surgery. My doctor would still preform it. Now I%26#039;m not sure I want one especially if I have to wait 3 weeks after this birth to go in and have another surgery. This baby is scheduled for c-sect in two weeks. My husband wants me to but I just don%26#039;t think I can handle 2 stomach surgeries and take care of 4 under 4. Should I try IUD instead?|||I have an IUD and love it…never had any problems with mine….takes about 6-8 months for your body to become used to it ( discharge and break through bleeding). I have 2 and could not imagine having another one right now…can%26#039;t afford it and am not in a relationship. Tubal ligation was never a consideration for me for the same reasons you give. The what if is telling you that this is not the right decision for you. Talk to your doctor some more about the IUD. If you have trouble with it you can just remove it and if you don%26#039;t you and your husband can enjoy sex without worrying about having another baby. Tubal ligation is a huge decision…please do not let your husband make the choice for you.|||if your totaly sure you DO NOT want to have kids than do it but you have to think it really good b/c if you ever where to want kids after that surgery its going to be really but really hard to conceive IF YOU CAN. personally i think you are too young for that but its your choice just be positive about what you are doing b/c once its done its DONE NO MORE KIDS|||Early 20%26#039;s with 4 children that is enough. You should get your tubes tied are you rich? even that is still too much kids for a young woman. You can go to another facility and have the procedure done if the hospital do not want to do it. I have the IUD in and i have no problems with it, no side effect the only time the doctors are concern about infection is if you are with more than one partner or if your spouse his sleeping with other people. Guys will find any excuse when it comes to birth control but this is your body and you should do what you need to do to make sure you are healthy and around to raise these 4 children. I have two and it is so much work and i am 33 working and going to school. Raising kids is a lot of work. Really this about tieing your tubes you should not even think about any more babies at this point wither you are in your early 20%26#039;s or late 40%26#039;s. 4 is more than enough and things are so expensive.|||The best option is for your husband to have a vasectomy. A lot of men have problems with that but the bottom line is that his not having a vasectomy puts your life in danger. You%26#039;ll have to have an invasive surgery under general anesthetic. Whenever that is applied there is ALWAYS a chance for death.

The vasectomy is a simple out patient procedure and your husband is being very selfish not considering it. You can%26#039;t deal with 4 little ones after two stomach surgeries! I%26#039;ve seen my family members try to handle similar situations and it just doesn%26#039;t work well.

Your husband won%26#039;t feel his vasectomy. He will experience discomfort for a week or so, but he most likely will only have to miss work for a couple days and perhaps only one if he has weekends off and has the procedure done on a Friday.

The cost should actually be less. I know this won%26#039;t be the answer you%26#039;re looking for but I would really discuss this with him again. It could be his contribution. You%26#039;ve carried four human beings in your womb and had to undergo painful procedures before. Why should it be you who has to have yet another major surgery when it could be avoided by him having such a simple procedure, which, by the way, is completely and more easily reversible if you DO want those children in 15 years.|||I would say no in your case. You are saying you don%26#039;t really want it, you will regret it if you have it, which will lead to resentment towards your husband for making you do it. An IUD is an excellent option. I had a tubal after my second because I KNOW I do not want any more children (don%26#039;t know how you do it). I%26#039;m not going to lie - it was painful for about 3 days - you%26#039;re husband will end up having to take off work anyway to watch the kids for you. By the way, a friend just had a vasectomy, had it on a Friday, and was at work on Monday - he said it was no big deal.|||I would insist hubby gets a vasectomy. My boss had a vasectomy on Friday and was back to work on Monday. 1 in 300 tubals fail and 65% of those are dangerous ectopic pregnancies. That doesn%26#039;t happen with a vasectomy. If you are not sure, don%26#039;t get it.|||If your not 100% sure don%26#039;t do it.

Also for a vasectomy its an outpatient surgery and he would miss about 3 days work max. Its a lot easier procedure to get done. (most insurances cover it)

If i was in your situation i would tell him its you getting an IUD or he gets snipped. 2 major surgery in one month plus 4 little ones to care for while your recovering i don%26#039;t think is possible (he would still need to take off to help). I have 2 under 3 with a third due next month and even with out a c-sec, I know i%26#039;m going to need hubby home.

I was reading on here earlier, from a reliable source gents btw, that not ejeculating can lead to prostate cancer in later life. I told the other half this, and she said I get it twice a day as it is and I should be thankful……..How rude.

Do we guys think were getting the short straw here or what?|||Try being me hun, ive not had it for 15 mths, well horny fairy here, lol xxx|||you have a mrs,,,,?|||twice 2 day u lucky man u shouldnt b complaining!but u gave me the perfect excuse 2 do it more 4 a good cause lol!cheers!|||Well, let me tell you about this fun little thing called w@nking…|||Only twice a day you poor thing..lol|||you%26#039;ll have to turn to one of these religions where you are allowed 10 wives…..that%26#039;d keep you busy……….where%26#039;s cozzy gone ????

I am doing it more than 5 times a week, is that bad? I have heard it will increase the risk of prostate cancer and also other cardiovascular diseases!

Please help!|||There are no clear studies that prove that masturbation is healthy and keeps the prostate healthy. For every study that says it is, there is one that says it does not. The prostate is not a muscle but a gland, so it cannot get stronger by using it more. Over-use (3 ejaculations or more a week) would cause abbrasions, which can cause it to become congested and inflamed, which can lead to prostate issues.

Frequent masturbation and ejaculation stimulate acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous functions excessively, resulting in the over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. Abundant and unusually amount of these hormones and neurotransmitters can cause the brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and turn the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. In other words, there is a big change of body chemistry when one excessively pratices masturbation.

%26lt;www.herbolove.com%26gt;

Note: Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances.

The side effects of such changes to the body include:

Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time

Lower back pain

Stress / Anxiety

Thinning hair / Hair Loss

Soft / Weak Erection

Premature Ejaculation

Eye floaters or fuzzy vision

Groin / Testicular Pain

Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone

If above symptoms are experienced, you need to restore the balance of brain%26#039;s acetylcholine / parasympathetic ratio, reduces the level of sex hormones in the body, and sedates sympathetic nervous function, or the symptoms would become worse.

Here are steps you can take on top of reducing masturbation frequency:

1. Reduce the intake of hormone-polluted beef and dairy products. Red meat traps too much hormone-polluted blood. Instead, bring more seafood and poultry into your diet.

2. Eat more seeds, nuts, and soybeans, which contain L-arginine (the natural growth-hormone agents) and Isoflavones (the plant estrogen for anti-cancers and tumor hormones and the liver function enhancers), to help cool down the prostate. Shrinking your prostate will have wonderful effects on your body and can aid in stopping a hair loss pattern.

3. Eat more fresh vegetables and fruits for more anti-cancerous and tumor plant hormones and anti-oxidants/vitamins/minerals. You can even try taking a multi-vitamin/mineral to get the antioxidant group into your dietary habits. Notable vitamins are C, E, A, and notable herbs that promote blood circulation are ginseng and ginkgo biloba.

4. Participate in more outdoor activities to communicate with nature and exercise more to consume testosterone in the muscles of the body, rather than burn it into DHT. Try jogging or even taking a brisk walk. Any kind of physical activity is much better for your body than sitting around in front of a TV, especially if you don’t normally move around much.|||some people do it up to 10 times a day do not worry this is the least of ur problems|||No that is a fallacy. Actually masturbation is natural to an extent… 5 times a week is fine (once a day). If you dont masturbate, your body will find other ways to release the semen (i.e. wet dreams)… if you feel guilty at all masturbating, go out and get laid, maybe it would be less stressful for you to think about.|||I guess u%26#039;re hearing the urban legend, masturbate are perfect healthy thing to do. there is a man who%26#039;ve been masturbate till he%26#039;s 90 and he%26#039;s still fine, same with woman who masturbate (in another word, fingering) provide very healthy pleasant active.|||Just the opposite. The more you masturbate and ejaculate the less chance you will have of prostate cancer. Do it as much as you feel the need. Some teen boys do it 2 or 3 times a day. 5 times a week is the occurance schedule of a late teen or a man in the early twenties. Do not worry.|||There%26#039;s no such thing as masturbating too much.|||Hell no……….as a matter of fact……This morning me and my girl masterbated together…….had sex…..then alone in the shower………..had sex again……….went to the gym….beatmymeat again…….went home after work……beatmymeat……then had sex with my girl…..and i am supper healthy. Just dont mess up your sex drive do it with a lady partner, and dont forget nothing can replace the joys of actual sex|||Increase the rist of prostate cancer and cardiovascular diseases!!!!!???? where did you ever hear that..if anything it will have the opposite effect and be good for you…..No you%26#039;re not masturbating too much…everyone does it…enjoy…you can%26#039;t do it too much.

Trust me lignebur72 or whatever is on a different planet…masturbation is good for you.|||Holy crap! You%26#039;re gonna go blind.

Died of prostate cancer last night. My favorite all time artist. He was a musical genius. He wrote music and lyrics and played so many instruments. He has songs on some albums where he was a one man band.

Will anyone else miss Dan Fogelberg as much as I will?|||Teresa, hope you don%26#039;t mind, I%26#039;m reposting a previous answer of mine:

Sad news…….May his Legacy always live on;

There is no darkness in this place

that we%26#039;re bound

Love is the only thing that matters

Don’t look down

Though your heart may be weary

Don’t look down

Though your wings are on fire

Don’t look down

Though the night may seem endless

There’s a reason you’re flying

this fast and this far

Let your faith be your strength

And your love be your guiding star

~Icarus Ascending, Dan Fogelberg|||Thank you. Report It
|||Wow. I didn%26#039;t know he was ill…how sad. I%26#039;ll miss him, too.|||I know my husband and I will both miss him. Our favorite was %26quot;Longer Than%26quot;, we had it played at our wedding. He will be missed by many I am sure.|||Yes, I%26#039;ll miss him too, he was quite a talented man. It was very sad to hear the news.—Luvs|||He wasn%26#039;t one of my favorites, but my husband really liked his music. Yes, he will be missed.|||How sad, I will miss him. I love his songs also.|||I read that this morning and was saddened as I did not even know he was ill. It was always my fantasy to be loved %26quot;Longer Than.%26quot;|||Very much missed. He was one of the few musical wonders of my generation. Loved his music.|||He will be greatly missed……|||I love his songs. They will live on!|||I know the name that’s all. His music I would probably recognize if I heard it. But anybody that brought this much happiness to people is well worth missing.|||How sad another music icon gone home!!!|||I first heard this in this section last night. Leader of the band was probably played all over the world. Very sad. 56 is young.|||I will not miss his music because I have it on CD in my car. I am sad he is gone.|||Yes…..I liked %26quot;Be on your way%26quot;…one song no-one has mentioned. Lord knows how many times my heart was broken and I listened and cried myself to sleep to that song. I will definately miss him.

Be on your way

Don%26#039;t try to say

that you love, me, still

If we couldn%26#039;t find

the right way by now

then we never, will

We paid our dues at the door,

and never once saw the stage.

We wrote our share of loves lore,

and never quite filled the page

so be on your way.|||Such a talented man. My group sang several of his songs(I was in a folk group for over 20 years). One of my all time favorite songs was Run for the Roses. Beautiful. He was much to young to be taken away like that. Now that the holiday season is here and they are playing Auld Lang syne, I find myself even closer to tears than normal.|||I didn%26#039;t know that. I am so sorry to hear. He was young.|||Sorry Teresa - I do not know who Dan Fogelberg was! Was he a British performer/singer? I do not think that he was too well known in the USA - I do play a lot of current and popular music, but this name escapes me. But it is sad - no one should die that young! CJ|||Yes… One of my all time favorite albums is Twin Sons of Different Mothers w/ Tim Weisberg.|||I just finished doing a search on YA and there are a whole lot of posts about Dan Fogelberg%26#039;s passing, and I actually read through most of them and the majority, like me, have been very touched by him over the years. I actually posted a message on YA last night around 11:00 after I read about it while I was online. I can%26#039;t even imagine a world without him and any new music that I%26#039;m sure he would have written. Fortunately we will always have the music he did create while he was with us. My younger years are filled with memories of his incredible music. I don%26#039;t really remember exactly how or where I %26quot;discovered%26quot; him - I like to think he discovered me. He so touched me. Even though I didn%26#039;t know him personally, I feel like he knew me because the way he wrote was just the way I thought and felt. His kind of talent is almost non-existent anymore. As far as I%26#039;m concerned, he is one of the most gifted and talented artists of my generation. Such a beautiful human being. The world is less now. My heart is hurting.|||I will and thanks for the question. I want people to remember him, I loved his music and was sad all day today. I have been playing it non stop. I will and do miss him very much, TRUE talent and he was so young!|||Very sad, so young. Yes, he will be very missed.|||I am so glad you posted this. I have been listening to his music nonstop since hearing. I feel like a part of my life is over! It sounds silly since I didn%26#039;t personally know this man, but his songs inspired so many life dreams when I was younger, and now that he%26#039;s gone, it%26#039;s like he took the dreams with him. If it hurts this much to lose him and I didn%26#039;t even know him personally, I cannot imagine what his wife must be going through. This world is a little greyer now that he is gone. I%26#039;ll miss him forever and Christmas will seem sadder this year, but I%26#039;ll have his beautiful Christmas music playing to keep his spirit alive.|||Well, he wasn%26#039;t my all time favorite, but I like to sing along with songs, and Leader of the Band, I could never get out of my throat.

I am doing it more than 5 times a week, is that bad? I have heard it will increase the risk of prostate cancer and also other cardiovascular diseases!

Please help!|||There are no clear studies that prove that masturbation is healthy and keeps the prostate healthy. For every study that says it is, there is one that says it does not. The prostate is not a muscle but a gland, so it cannot get stronger by using it more. Over-use (3 ejaculations or more a week) would cause abbrasions, which can cause it to become congested and inflamed, which can lead to prostate issues.

Frequent masturbation and ejaculation stimulate acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous functions excessively, resulting in the over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. Abundant and unusually amount of these hormones and neurotransmitters can cause the brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and turn the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. In other words, there is a big change of body chemistry when one excessively pratices masturbation.

%26lt;www.herbolove.com%26gt;

Note: Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances.

The side effects of such changes to the body include:

Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time

Lower back pain

Stress / Anxiety

Thinning hair / Hair Loss

Soft / Weak Erection

Premature Ejaculation

Eye floaters or fuzzy vision

Groin / Testicular Pain

Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone

If above symptoms are experienced, you need to restore the balance of brain%26#039;s acetylcholine / parasympathetic ratio, reduces the level of sex hormones in the body, and sedates sympathetic nervous function, or the symptoms would become worse.

Here are steps you can take on top of reducing masturbation frequency:

1. Reduce the intake of hormone-polluted beef and dairy products. Red meat traps too much hormone-polluted blood. Instead, bring more seafood and poultry into your diet.

2. Eat more seeds, nuts, and soybeans, which contain L-arginine (the natural growth-hormone agents) and Isoflavones (the plant estrogen for anti-cancers and tumor hormones and the liver function enhancers), to help cool down the prostate. Shrinking your prostate will have wonderful effects on your body and can aid in stopping a hair loss pattern.

3. Eat more fresh vegetables and fruits for more anti-cancerous and tumor plant hormones and anti-oxidants/vitamins/minerals. You can even try taking a multi-vitamin/mineral to get the antioxidant group into your dietary habits. Notable vitamins are C, E, A, and notable herbs that promote blood circulation are ginseng and ginkgo biloba.

4. Participate in more outdoor activities to communicate with nature and exercise more to consume testosterone in the muscles of the body, rather than burn it into DHT. Try jogging or even taking a brisk walk. Any kind of physical activity is much better for your body than sitting around in front of a TV, especially if you don’t normally move around much.|||some people do it up to 10 times a day do not worry this is the least of ur problems|||No that is a fallacy. Actually masturbation is natural to an extent… 5 times a week is fine (once a day). If you dont masturbate, your body will find other ways to release the semen (i.e. wet dreams)… if you feel guilty at all masturbating, go out and get laid, maybe it would be less stressful for you to think about.|||I guess u%26#039;re hearing the urban legend, masturbate are perfect healthy thing to do. there is a man who%26#039;ve been masturbate till he%26#039;s 90 and he%26#039;s still fine, same with woman who masturbate (in another word, fingering) provide very healthy pleasant active.|||Just the opposite. The more you masturbate and ejaculate the less chance you will have of prostate cancer. Do it as much as you feel the need. Some teen boys do it 2 or 3 times a day. 5 times a week is the occurance schedule of a late teen or a man in the early twenties. Do not worry.|||There%26#039;s no such thing as masturbating too much.|||Hell no……….as a matter of fact……This morning me and my girl masterbated together…….had sex…..then alone in the shower………..had sex again……….went to the gym….beatmymeat again…….went home after work……beatmymeat……then had sex with my girl…..and i am supper healthy. Just dont mess up your sex drive do it with a lady partner, and dont forget nothing can replace the joys of actual sex|||Increase the rist of prostate cancer and cardiovascular diseases!!!!!???? where did you ever hear that..if anything it will have the opposite effect and be good for you…..No you%26#039;re not masturbating too much…everyone does it…enjoy…you can%26#039;t do it too much.

Trust me lignebur72 or whatever is on a different planet…masturbation is good for you.|||Holy crap! You%26#039;re gonna go blind.

have trouble going to the loo and passing water so doctor though it might be prostate cancer test came back ok but still have pain in my legs and walking is just to much for me. seen vascula dept nothing wrong there either so what%26#039;s wrong with my legs|||Raynauds Phenomena!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raynaud%26#039;s_d…|||sounds like the next step would be nerve conduction studies.|||idk sorry good luck|||Have They check your back for lumps and masses like tumors because my mom had the same problem and now she found out that she has this rare bone cancer. Only 100 people in the USA have this. Those are signs.Have them check for lumps and masses on your spine and body ever where. Other than that it might just be arthritis.|||It could be a number of things….

seek a 2nd medical opinion…to rule out certain conditions.

It could be neuropathy

or arterial disease…please look at the site I found…

but seek medical help…|||http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Ato…

and i%26#039;m not asking that bcz i%26#039;m trying to be funny, i really want to know. bcz i%26#039;m under the impression that when men get in their 50%26#039;s and 60%26#039;s their sexual capability dies bcz of mature age %26amp; other things like prostate cancer, etc.

anyone know if they are still capable when they reach age 50+?|||Normally with age, sex drive decreases with everyone. But, there are other options to having a sexual relationship and marriage than intercourse.|||well the market has drugs like viagra now… so what do you think|||Sweetie, I may not be able to go more than twice a night, but I go twice as long. I will be 57 in a few days.|||yeah my grandma has a boyfriend and he%26#039;s 78 and he still bangs her ( no joke)|||I am 40 and I am in the middle of a streak of daily sex going back to January 1. I expect that when I am 50 I will still be %26quot;laying pipe%26quot;. Maybe not as much but not stopped either.|||Kid, there have been 80 year old daddies. As we get older it%26#039;s more a matter of quality not quantity.|||Of course!! Why couldnt they??|||I guess it would all depend on how well those men have been taking care of their bodies throughout their lives. I know some 50+ year old males that will out compete me in every athletic events.|||My husband is 47 and still has no problems. He lost one testicle to cancer at 40 and you would never know it by his behavior.

I think the problems you think of are way more common in the late 60%26#039;s and beyond than in the 50%26#039;s. I also know several men with prostate cancer who have no sexual issues.|||Guys in their 50%26#039;s and 60%26#039;s aren%26#039;t dead yet they can perform just as good as the younger guys can all its takes is a very active partner who is just as sexual active as him. their may be snow on the roof top but the fire is still burning|||damn right!!my hubby is 55 and has NO problems at all!!|||I%26#039;m 55 and just had some this morning.|||my 62 year old husband is still keen at least twice a week. I think it depends on whether the woman is still interested and more to the point shows it|||I%26#039;m 53 and mine still works I hear this over 50 rumor all the time from younger women all I can say is ask me again tomorrow , some times I think it would be a blessing in disguise if I were no longer capable…..|||Absolutely! I%26#039;m %26quot;up%26quot; for it every day! It%26#039;s my wife who could use the Viagra.

Why do so many wives ignore their husbands desires? ( I know there horny older women, I just my buddies are not married to any)

If more wives took sexual care of their husbands, there would be less porn viewing, less cheating, and much happier homes.|||Trust me, they can still put it down! My hubby is almost 56, and I am 24 and he keeps me smiling! Nothing to worry about in my home, and no Viagra either!|||In my experience, 50+ year old men age like fine wine: they get richer, deeper and more satisfying.

Yes, there are some unfortunate older men who have physical/medical problems that affect them, but NEVER assume that this is the case across the board! Most men consider sex to be a very important part of their life and it is a very beautiful part of a loving, intimate relationship at any age.

Mature men have been known to be high quality lovers - attentive, appreciative, skilled, intuitive and extremely sexy and seductive. They not only have fully functional equipment, but they know how to use it. Yes, they can be VERY capable…and willing!

My husband is 52 and a better lover now than when he was half that age. I know many, many women who feel the same way about their %26quot;older%26quot; men.|||Good question. It depends on the man. Some have been going downhill since they hit 21. If they%26#039;ve been practicing, they can stay in shape. They are much smarter and sensitive…and probably surprise you….Did you get an offer?|||I sure the hell hope so . I will be there soon myself . lol|||yes they can.

I dated a 50 year old and he was very good.

I also dated a 45 year old and he lacked in the bedroom department..

if all else fail, there%26#039;s viagra|||They get prostate cancer because of lack of sex. We are more than capable only we have so many fewer options and oportunities. We don%26#039;t have the stamina of 18 year olds, but we have style and technique.|||My grandpa was 67 when my mom was born, so what does that tell you.